Finding help for marriage conflict can be a daunting task, especially if your spouse is not working with you on a resolution.  Marriage counseling is typically only effective when both parties agree to seek help on the same terms.  When this isn’t possible you have to look for other sources for advice.  Some popular options include some of the resources found on the internet.  Helpful websites, forums, and books can be found by simply searching Google.  Not all of them are free, but very few of them are expensive when compared to the cost of counseling.  One website that we like is MendingMarriage.com which offers reviews of books you can use to help Save Your Marriage.